In this conversation, Patton Dodd discusses the importance of understanding poverty and inequality in San Antonio through storytelling and community engagement. He shares insights from his memoir about fatherhood, exploring his relationship with his father and the impact of father figures in one’s life. The discussion emphasizes the need for awareness and connection in addressing social issues and the complexities of familial relationships. In this conversation, Patton Dodd shares his insights on fatherhood, exploring the complexities of father figures, personal expectations, and the importance of presence in parenting. He discusses his own journey of becoming a dad, the emotional challenges he faced, and the significance of being fully present for children. Dodd emphasizes that fatherhood is an evolutionary role that requires intentional engagement and nurturing, and he provides resources for dads looking to deepen their connections with their children.
Takeaways
- We wanted to talk to people about poverty and inequality.
- We use stories to facilitate conversations.
- We’ve generated an audience who care about these issues.
- We’re not pushing towards particular policy outcomes.
- We’re trying to get people to become more aware.
- I was haunted by my dad’s story.
- I felt a little bit of boldness to write.
- I didn’t really know my father until I researched him.
- You don’t become the way my dad was without trauma.
- Father figures aren’t just mentors, you create them. I gave him a lot; I expected him to be something he was never going to be.
- Part of the answer to anxiety is just listening to the stories of other dads.
- What’s needed is not to feel like you know how to do it, but to keep showing up.
- Presence comes from deep within; you have to choose to be attentive.
- You can do a lot of dutiful stuff and be completely absent-minded about it.
- Fathers play an essential role that can’t just be replaced.
- We are wired for fatherhood; it’s part of our evolution.
- Little moments become the big moments in life.
- You have to actually choose to be attentive to your children.
- It’s important to be all in during those moments with your kids.
